2024 Reflections
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Jan 11, 2021
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2024-reflections
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MISC
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This is my reflection on the year 2024, which has just passed, highlighting personal achievements, memorable experiences, and major life events. I am also including my expectations for 2025. I hope to maintain this annual habit and look forward to revisiting these words I write to myself.
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Relocating to Seattle
In late 2023 and early 2024, I decided to move to Seattle from Silicon Valley (South Bay), mainly to shift away from the chaotic life I experienced in 2022 and 2023. Many reasons drove me to make this change.
- My startup journey and relationship both ended simultaneously, so I spent most of 2023 dealing with the aftermath of 2022. I focused on reflecting on my successes and failures while managing relationships with investors and attorneys.
- I discovered that Silicon Valley can be an unwelcoming place during difficult times, especially without relatives or genuine friends nearby. People are consumed by their careers, operating at a relentless pace with little empathy. Everyone easily finds "higher priorities," letting your concerns fade away. Many "friends" only stick around during good times but mock you when things fall apart.
- Under this pressure, I found myself becoming irritable, impatient, and emotionally fragile beneath a hardened exterior. I remember standing in the middle of the night, leaning against my kitchen countertop in Los Altos Hills, gazing at the Bay Area's dark silhouette, tears slowly rolling down my face. Throughout 2023, I hurt myself and many innocent friends and family.
- Starting 2024, I began focusing more on myself, my family, and building relationships with friends who could support me during difficult times. I'm working to repair what's broken and heal what's wounded.
- My MBTI shifted from ENTJ to INTJ in 2023, and in 2024 I hoped to become less introverted, focusing on those who care about me and giving them my best self. It's working! I've made genuine new friends and mended broken relationships.
- Seattle offers a lower cost of living than the Bay Area and is closer to Vancouver, my second hometown in Canada, where I can find plenty of comfort food and old friends to hang out, ski, sail, hike, and exercise with. With the same rent I paid in Los Altos Hills, I now have a better home in Seattle/Vancouver, a private fitness coach, and have begun my aviation journey. Pursuing these passions has significantly improved my mental health.
- Living in Seattle also eases my immigration concerns since Canada is just a short trip away. I can maintain my PR status, use my Nexus Card, and handle US status renewals in Vancouver.
- Shortly after relocating to Seattle, I realized I'd made the right choice. When everything improves by even 5%, these small changes multiply, helping me recover quickly from the darkness of 2023.
Aviation Journey
Toward the end of February 2024, I started my aviation journey pursuing a Private Pilot License (PPL). I had been dreaming of becoming a pilot for a long time, occasionally throughout my whole life, and this desire grew stronger at the beginning of 2024.
- It's like adding another degree of freedom to my life, progressing from walking to biking, driving, and now flying! While high-speed rail is the top choice for distances between 100-500 miles in China, North America lacks such transportation infrastructure. Looking at California's high-speed rail project, projected to cost around 128 billion dollars and taking forever to complete, you quickly realize that flying makes more sense in North America—general aviation for distances between 100-500 miles, and commercial airlines for anything beyond that.
- As a result, general aviation has shortened my trip from Vancouver to Seattle from 2.5 hours to 1.5 hours, Seattle to Victoria from 2.75 hours (by ferry) to 1.5 hours, and Vancouver to Revelstoke from 6 hours to 2 hours.
- Along this journey, I've met fascinating people in the aviation industry—instructors, ferry pilots, surveyors, airline pilots, and even retired millionaires enjoying their leisure time. I've seen flight school aircraft, firefighting planes, and World War II fighter jets. In August, I attended Canada's largest airshow, where I witnessed F-22 fighter jets and C-5 carriers. A whole new world opened up, and I felt like a newborn, amazed again by the breadth of human possibility.
- When flying, I enter a state similar to skiing or snowboarding—almost like zen—where you leave all worries behind and become absorbed in the spectacular views and every subtle movement of the aircraft. You can feel the wind against your airframe, with wild open lands and dramatic terrain beneath you.
- You also learn to adopt pilot habits in your daily life: creating checklists to stay organized, being well-prepared, maintaining 100% concentration while staying calm during critical situations. You learn to take responsibility for passengers and establish personal boundaries when navigating challenging situations.
A Taste of Academic World
- The academic world, although I'm not a big fan of the 9-5 job, occasionally produces interesting moments when you genuinely engage with your work and have a good team around you. During 2024, my work on Large Language Model evaluation with Apple MLR was accepted by the 2024 ACL workshop. Apple sponsored my entire trip to Bangkok, Thailand in Business Class. It was my first time experiencing a top academic conference, where I saw firsthand what the natural language processing world is focusing on in the post-LLM era. My time in Thailand was incredible—experiencing luxury service while paying a fraction of U.S. prices.
- At the conference, I noticed researchers were primarily exploring ideas around LLMs and transformer-based models, though I wished for some breakthrough ideas beyond the transformer paradigm.
- Beyond the conference, I spent half my time enjoying Thailand's hospitality: Thai massages, impressive shopping malls like CentralWorld, ICONSiam, and Siam Paragon, and amazing Thai cuisine at places like Jay Fai and Here Hai. It truly was a tourism paradise.
Books
My English reading speed remains a bottleneck when exploring the world through reading, but I managed to finish reading three fascinating books:
- Zero to One by Peter Thiel:
- True innovation means creating something entirely new ("going from 0 to 1") rather than copying existing ideas ("going from 1 to n")
- Monopolies in business can be good when achieved through innovation, as they allow companies to focus on long-term value creation rather than just competition
- The best startups identify unique opportunities others don't see
- The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss:
- Focus on effectiveness over efficiency - eliminate unnecessary tasks rather than optimizing them
- Use automation and delegation to reduce your active work time
- Design your ideal lifestyle first, then build your work around it rather than vice versa
- The Most Important Thing by Howard Marks:
- Superior investment results come from better risk assessment and management
- Market cycles are inevitable - success comes from understanding where we are in the cycle
- The importance of "second-level thinking" - going deeper than obvious surface-level analysis
Others
- In the second half of 2024, I hired a private fitness coach to help me build a healthier lifestyle. We discussed lifespan and longevity—I hope fitness can slow down muscle aging and improve my cardiovascular health. From a productivity perspective, I expect fitness to regulate my sleep schedule and extend my daily energy levels. Most importantly, creating a fitness habit will benefit my whole life. I see this as an asset more valuable than money.
- I've long been fascinated by Japanese culture and finally decided to take action by learning the language! In the second half of 2024, I began daily language practice through Duolingo (a wonderfully designed and executed learning app). I'm preparing for a future trip to Japan that will definitely happen at some point. As I write this, my Duolingo streak has reached 205 days. I plan to intensify my Japanese studies around 2026.
2025 expectation
Positioning for My Next Startup Opportunity
- The aviation industry is facing significant challenges, particularly for flight schools and small charter businesses with no fixed vendors. These organizations are often overlooked and struggle financially when their aircraft are grounded. Addressing this issue could unlock a meaningful business opportunity.
- Developing the right technology to help these operators minimize downtime and keep their aircraft flying is a compelling use case.
- The key is to remain exploratory, focusing on creating workable solutions before worrying about scaling. Skills are transferable, and success will come through unwavering dedication.
Aviation
- Licensing
- Complete my night rating to enable evening flights.
- Transfer my Canadian PPL to an FAA PPL to expand my flying capabilities across Canada and the US.
- Trips in Planning
- Tofino, Seattle, and Portland trips.
- A potential cross-country adventure, such as Palo Alto to Sacramento or Lake Tahoe.
Tennis Goals
Beginning the Journey
As I work toward completing my aviation licensing, I’m also starting my tennis journey.
Progress
- Beginner classes are set to begin in February.
- My 2025 goal is to reach at least a 2.5 NTRP rating, with an ambitious target of 3.0.
Snowboarding Goals
My snowboarding abilities have plateaued, though I can confidently navigate green, blue, and black routes. However, my carving technique, especially in the upper part of turns, needs improvement.
- All-Mountain & Freeride Skills, enhance carving techniques on black moguls.
- Progress in medium jumps and small tricks.
- Learn buttering skills for added versatility.
- Park Skills Focus on advancing in jumps and tricks.
- Work on dropping into lips and cornices—a challenging but exciting goal.